“Is it possible, in the final analysis, for one human being to achieve perfect understanding of another?We can invest enormous time and energy in serious efforts to know another person, but in the end, how close can we come to that person's essence? We convince ourselves that we know the other person well, but do we really know anything important about anyone?”
I fell in love with this quote the first time I saw it. Murakami clearly knows what to speak. It is true that we would never know someone completely, thus judging is not wise. There is a day or two when you cross your path with someone you can't force yourself to like. At the time like that, when hatred is in the corner, waiting for the trigger, all you have to do is just sit back and relax. You know what? every one has kindness within them. a bad guy is not 100% evil, there must be good side spared within. Don't fill your self with hatred or anger, those things consume you and make you a bad person. Instead pray for them and always try to look at their positive side. If you cannot find out the positive side, you should be grateful that at least he/she is not trying to kill you. No i'm not mastering the art of being good to everyone, i am just trying not to turn my self into a hating bitch, because love wins, dude.